Friday Wrap-Up 9-14-12: Must-Reads and Best Online Finds From the Week
It’s finally the weekend!
Every week I come across so many informative articles, funny and inspiring quotes, and cool websites. It’s impossible to post them all on my Facebook page, so here’s what I came across this week:
1. “The Power of a Parents Touch” by Kara Fleck on Bamboo Magazine
A beautiful reminder of the importance of mindful affection for our kids. This concept can be applied to a couple’s relationship as well. Here is a brief excerpt from the article:
Touch is a powerful thing, especially a parent’s touch. It is likely you’ve seen the power of a parent’s touch in action. Babies are soothed when folded in loving arms, tears are chased away with a hug, a gentle squeeze of the shoulder that reminds an antsy child to sit still just a while longer, or how a parent’s large hand wrapped around a child’s small one can provide an extra boost of courage. We know that touch matters.
So, let me ask you a question I recently asked myself: when was the last time you slowed down enough to connect with your child, not just through words, but through a loving, intentionally tender touch?
We touch our children often, of course. But how many of those connections are made on auto-pilot? What if we put more intention into our tasks as loving caregivers? How can we add tenderness to the routine tasks of childcare?
I recently posted on gifted kids and thought this was an interesting distinction between “bright student” and “gifted learner” and worth sharing.
3. Play Therapy Pictionary on Creative Counseling 101 is a great therapeutic activity to help children identify and express feelings.
1. Ask your play therapy client to pick five to ten feeling words and write them down. These feeling words should come from feelings the client has experienced in the past day or week.
2. Once the feeling words have been identified, ask the play therapy client to paint or draw (with colored markers or crayons) the feelings on paper.
3.The therapist will call out a word while the play therapy client paints or draws a feeling related to the “feeling word” the therapist stated. This game is similar to Pictionary.
4. The therapist will continue to state the “feeling words” identified by the play therapy client. Each “feeling word” will be drawn or painted to create a unique “feeling picture.”
5. Discuss the drawing or painting after each “feeling word” is stated. Talk about the final picture or painting and process what it felt like for the play therapy client to put the feelings down on paper.
6. The play therapy client may want to take the picture home to celebrate their feelings, or to further explore their feelings.
PAST FRIDAY WRAP UPS:
Have a great weekend!